Knowing what we know about death and dying, it comes as no surprise that most doctors would not be willing to undergo the surgery we so effortlessly prescribe to our patients. We know enough about modern medicine to know its limits. And, if we have a choice in how to go, we will choose to go gently—not with a tube thrust down our throats and someone thumping on our chests trying to revive a failing heart. I know of a doctor who has had the words, “Do not resuscitate” tattooed across his chest.

I wonder what it is that afflicts doctors with the very thing they aim to heal in others, and how it affects them when it does. How does an eye surgeon live the last few years of his life having gone blind? How does a movement disorder specialist come to terms with debilitating Parkinson’s? How does an obstetrician deal with her own miscarriage or a psychiatrist with his own bipolarity? How does a spine surgeon recover from being paralysed from a large disc herniation or a vertebral fracture? And yet, it seems harmless and okay to poke fun at an urologist dealing with his erectile dysfunction, or a proctologist who has an anal fissure.

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It is possible that there are spiritual laws at play here. There must be a deep karmic attachment to what one desires most in life, and the only way to be truly free is to be completely annihilated by it—a little bit like being in love, isn’t it? That is why when doctors survive an illness, they value the suffering of their patients even more. That is why when anyone survives a critical illness, they view life from a different perspective. Leo Tolstoy once famously said, “One must put oneself in everyone’s position. To understand everything is to forgive everything.”

Dr Madhuri Behari, once the head of the Neurology department at AIIMS, had a stroke while on rounds and was immediately given a clot buster from which she thankfully recovered completely and is still active in practice. In contrast, Dr Jagjit Singh Chopra, another illustrious neurologist, suffered a stroke while moderating a session at a neuroscience conference; he succumbed in his own ICU, after battling complications of the attack for over a month.  Dr Sorab Bhabha, a benevolent neurologist, passed away from motor neuron disease at the still flourishing age of 52.

The Dr Ernest Borges road was named after one of India’s greatest surgeons, who spent his life treating cancer at the Tata Memorial hospital; he was struck by carcinoma of the stomach, the very disease he worked so hard to alleviate. Dr Katy Dinshaw, a leading radiation oncologist, who was the director of Tata Memorial Hospital for over a decade, died of cancer herself. Dr Arun Kurkure, a highly respectable and well-known onco-surgeon, passed away after a two-year struggle with colon cancer. Dr Nitu Mandke, an eminent city cardiac surgeon, died from a massive heart attack. Legendary cardiologist Dr BK Goyal, who headed the department at Bombay Hospital, succumbed to a cardiac arrest. Dr KT Dholakia, a towering orthopaedic surgeon, died after a prolonged illness that resulted from a fracture. The ongoing pandemic has sucked the air out of several intensivists and pulmonologists, who fell victim to the virus.

This first of July, we celebrated something called Doctor’s Day. There was an unusual outpouring of love and affection for doctors this year on social media, most of it because of Covid-19. We were thanked profusely for soldiering the Coronavirus war we’ve been fighting, and transiently made to feel like superheroes. And then, as it always happens, a few doctors were beaten up over the next couple of days for a patient who was brought in dead at some hospital and could not be revived. When we are not dying from the diseases we treat, we are dying from injustice and inhumanity and undignified violence—in our country, at least.

This year, let’s choose to change things around. Like the famous quote goes, “In a world where you can be anything, be kind.” Don’t curse us; as you can tell, we are already adequately cursed. Instead, pray for us. Pray with us. Pray that we get better in our ability to treat you. Pray that we always do the right thing. And, if you can, spare a few moments and say a little prayer for my mentor as well—a noble man, who spent his life healing others. Prayer, if done sincerely, has the capacity to transform, harmonise, and rejuvenate. 

“Men die of the diseases which they have studied most. It’s as if the morbid condition was an evil creature which, when it found itself closely hunted, flew at the throat of its pursuer,” wrote a surgeon in a story by Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, a man who gave up the practice of medicine to write stories (for which he was better paid) and who, thankfully, died a natural death.

I wonder if I will die operating or writing. Either way, I’ll have a table to lie on. 

The writer is practicing neurosurgeon at Wockhardt Hospitals and Honorary Assistant Professor of Neurosurgery at Grant Medical College and Sir JJ Group of Hospitals.