Use a ‘vector’: Explaining your point can be better than making a direct statement. Use a vector — like a story or instances. Stories are impactful; they help to  engage the listener’s imagination, and enable the speaker to convey context, nuances and different perspectives. Be cool and tone it well: Don’t get agitated. The person who never loses their temper always wins. Don’t let your tone, volume or emotions become louder than your point. Acknowledge it all: If you make a mistake or say something incorrect, acknowledge it, apologise and move on. If you digress, you can always pause and return to the point.

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Ami Ved, 42, communication coach and founder, Speakwithamee

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Stay attentive: When you have the opportunity to speak on a public platform, remember that mindfulness is the key to ensure controversial topics do not get out of hand. Be a mindful listener so that you can respond accordingly. Speak your audience’s language: Apart from what you speak, pay attention to how you speak because ultimately what your audience hears matters the most. When you speak in the audience’s language, they will be able to relate to and understand you better. Focus on the takeaways: Be clear on the purpose of your message — what is that one piece of information you want your audience to leave with? What is the outcome of your speech? Plan your speaking points so you can stay on track. Pause and reflect: It’s okay to take a breather when discussing a sensitive topic in public. Take your time to understand the question or reiterate it for clarity. This will give you time to pause and engage the questioner, shifting the focus to an actual inquiry.

Quick tips

>> Be prepared: There is no excuse for lack of research on the topic. Stay updated on any developments and consider all potential talking points. 
>> Don’t be impulsive:  Avoid speaking from an “I feel” perspective. Instead, present verified and universal facts.
>> Where are you coming from? Be mindful of who you represent — whether yourself, an organisation, or a community — and who you address. 
>> Stay on track: Don’t get dragged into unnecessary debates; politely, yet sternly, remind participants of the agenda.
Praveen Singh, 44, director, Cogito training and counselling centre

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>> Lit Nama: Episode 3 with Sonia Thomas: The episode navigates questions on whether there can be more sensitivity on digital platforms, and how one can wear opinions on their sleeve.