Sohaila Abdulali

When did you begin work on the book, What We Talk About When We Talk About Rape?
In September 2017. And finished my first draft in March 2018, but really, it is the culmination of decades' worth of thinking about the issue in between doing other things.

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How did the idea of travelling across five continents to meet rape survivors materialise? What were some of the similarities and dissimilarities that emerged from your experiences across diverse cultures?
I didn't travel everywhere. Many interviews were by phone or on Skype. There were differences across cultures, of course (like calling a survivor zinda laash vs spoiled goods) but I found the similarities more surprising and compelling. If you take away the veneer of cultural differences, silence, shame, and unresolved trauma are pretty universal.

Being a survivor, did you find a difference in how survivor accounts are documented from the way you chose to do it?
Yes. The few books I've seen are mostly either solely personal, or solely academic. I mixed things more by combining research and interviews with my story and opinion.

While rape laws in India have been made stricter, what needs to be done at the level of society and investigative agencies?
Everything remains to be done! Laws need to be applied equitably (an impossible task in an unequal society), and we all need to take on board that we all contribute to rape culture in many ways.

What do we ought to talk about when we talk about rape?
The plurality of women's experiences and reactions — there is no one correct way to respond. Also, that it is ordinary men who rape, not Monsters Out There.

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