Nadir Kanthawala with his five-year-old daughter Ziya. Parenting, he says, starts before the actual arrival of the baby, with everything from finances to one’s compatibility with one’s partner requiring careful and early consideration. Pic/Bipin Kokate

For Kotikalapudi, who enjoys the company of friends, negotiating with a four-year-old to make time for social engagements hasn’t been easy. Moreover, over the past 18 months, managing a child round the clock along with other responsibilities proved challenging. “He’s not at day care for eight hours anymore. We actually learnt parenting all over again [in this time]”, he shares. The lockdown also led the podcasters to rethink their content strategy and cancel pre-planned episodes in favour of new ones, which made space for conversations around coping with the new circumstances and tending to the mental health of both, children and their parents.

Poll

Who will win the Punjab Elections?

BJP 32.76%

AAP 43.10%

INC 24.14%

Submit

View All In Poll

Apart from sharing their own insights, Pops in a Pod has held discussions with a host of guests, including sleep consultants, psychotherapists, gynaecologists, nutritionists, neurologists, urban designers and and fathers from diverse backgrounds and professions. Adman Lahar Joshi, a stay-at-home dad, who decided to look after his twin boys while his wife went back to work, sparked a real conversation on a subject still relatively uncommon in our country. Getting to know musician Jishnu Dasgupta of band Swarathma as a father and listening to the music his son inspired, they recall, was similarly memorable. The duo has hosted episodes, 87 to date, on subjects ranging from adoption, selection of schools and academic performances, online learning, apps, games, toys, and teaching children about finance. to paternity leaves, parenting a special needs child, the effects of gender stereotypes on children, Indian fathers bringing up children outside the country, and children’s experiences with the busy and restrictive urbanscape of Mumbai. Within the podcast, they’ve also held themed series on parenting in films, Valentine’s Day-themed episodes examining how a couple’s relationship evolves as they become parents, and episodes on entrepreneur parents. “We noticed that in the last decade or so, many people in their 30s who quit their jobs to start as entrepreneurs, were also parents. We did a string of episodes where we spoke to them about their business and parenting journeys together,” informs Kanthawala.

A background in marketing has helped the hosts churn out fresh and relevant ideas. For World Breastfeeding Week in the first week of August, they have an episode planned that they say will address what we’re all thinking: why would we want to hear about it from two dads? As Kotikalapudi says, “The objective was never to be the cool or know-it-all fathers. What we wanted was to create awareness and put these conversations out there.”